Burn Slowly

"Paheli" is one of the best movies I have seen in a long time. Whether or not you like or have seen Bollywood movies, this is not one to miss. It is a love story (of course) that is really sweet, interesting, entertaining, and sexy. One of the best parts of the movie is this song: (If you want to see the movie, skip watching the video and just listen to the music so nothing is ruined for you.)



I adore this song. Burn slowly...

I Need An Inspirational Speech Montage!

Hahaha, yes!!! Woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

Buuuut, Birthday!

Mostly for myself, since I have a terrible memory, I want to write down the details of our birthday celebrations!

Bowen and I went to the nearby park after dropping Brandon off for work. But for one strange incident with a possible homeless/crazy guy trying to talk to Bowen and me, we had a fun and safe time there. We had a pretty typical day consisting of our routine, eating, playing, napping.

Initially I was worried that Brandon and I would not get to spend much time together on my birthday because he had to work extra hours on Friday (all due to the aforementioned sickness earlier in the week which he took off for). However, he got to leave work an hour early because his usual staff meeting was canceled. Bowen and I went to pick him up and then we had a really good evening.

We stopped to rent some movies. I know it sounds funny, but I am a really eclectic movie lover, and I was wanting to have a Lethal Weapon movie marathon! I had only recently seen the first one all the way through and wanted to see the rest! Brandon looked at me during dinner - which we had picked up from out local favourite steak house - and said "Do you know how awesome it is to have a wife who wants to have a Lethal Weapon marathon on her BIRTHDAY?!"


LOL.

Like I said, we got some really yummy food and ate it at home while watching our movies. Then, we hung out all night and finished our movie marathon with some popcorn and drinks after Bowen went to bed. It was such a nice, fun, relaxing day. Thanks Brandon, you made it wonderful!!!

And Brandon is still going to take me to Macaroni Grill for my birthday because we wanted to go on a weekday. We were going to go today, but all got sick. So, as soon as we all feel better, we are going to have a big blowout for Bowen and me. Mmmm, tiramisu!!!

Sad Momma Sad

So I just wrote this on Amanda's Facebook Wall and realized that I just need to get out some thoughts after watching the riveting, question-filled, disturbing piece of cinematic genius that is "Gone Baby Gone":

I am so frickin sad right now. I just watched "Gone Baby Gone." I... dang... I dunno, I just feel so conflicted. Which was absolutely the point, right? I mean, great job Ben Affleck, I will officially stop making fun of him now. lol. But, holy mother of crapity crapkins, saaaad sad movie. Or really: saaaad, sad world.

Let me first just say: see the movie. It is great. Just because something makes you uncomfortable doesn't mean it is not wholly worth watching. Like any good piece of art, it should make you question at the very least.

There are so many things I appreciate about the movie that I want to hash out, but I'm going to stick with one main idea: What is our responsibility, singularly and collectively, to do something about the rampant child abuse occurring worldwide?

The point, and the whole piece of the disturbing pie is that the movie is not just a movie - it is a reflection of real life events and ongoing problems we have in this world. I feel like a lot of people will just walk away from seeing something like "Gone Baby Gone" and feel like they are not big enough, powerful enough, significant enough to make a difference in relation to an enormous problem like child kidnapping/abuse/molestation/rape/mistreatment/abduction/etc. And I feel like that is honestly the wrong response. It's just like the "my one vote doesn't count" mentality, that one voice is not significant or capable of achieving anything versus the ethereal idea of some sort of predestined election outcome outside of one's control.

Am I making any sense? Whatever.

The point is: we have a short time on this planet and we ARE responsible. For everything. I don't care what you believe, but most people pretty much agree that God is not gunna reach his Almighty hand down and influence anything happening on Earth anytime soon. So if I don't do anything, life is basically going to be the same or worse for my children and all the other precious lives that were started after mine. Now, I'm not talking about taking on the weight of the world, shouldering all the responsibility/guilt/burden for every mistreated child in the world, but if we don't allow some of our shame and discomfiture to do it's work and take SOME responsibility, nothing will get better. Women did not get the vote (disgustingly less than 100 years ago), people of color did not get the vote (disturbingly slightly over 100 years), the Civil Rights Act prohibiting discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex, and national origin did not come about (LESS than 44 frakking years ago!) because people sat on their bums and did nothing.

We are still sitting on our bums and doing nothing about all sorts of inequalities in our own "free" nation, not to mention seriously disturbing atrocities like child abuse that I'm pretty sure we can all agree on despite race, color, religion, sex, sexual orientation, national origin or any damned other feature.

Dammit, I don't know what to do at this time in my life. Maybe I am just going to have to be a hell of a lot more informed voter, adopt our next kid, donate to worthy charities, and run for office when I'm sixty years old and have more time. lol. Nobody would vote for me, I'm so damn liberal. What can we do? I dunno. Something. I'll figure it out.

I Need to Take Out the Trash

I'm so sorry. I am such a slacker. I have not been posting mainly because of my despicable and irreversible addiction to the Sims2. I recently reacquired the game and have been spending ungodly amounts of time playing God to my little sims. Man, that game rocks.

On a quick side note:
I watched Waitress this evening. It really was as good as all the hype has made it out to be. Now I want to eat pie and play with my silly little toddler.

Good Grief, Peggy Sue

So, I was watching "Peggy Sue Got Married" on Netflix View Instantly tonight, relaxing for a bit after putting my kiddo down and before playing some SimCity Societies. I remembered liking it from when I was younger and thought I could laugh at Nick Cage's crazy, goofy performance again.

About 23 minutes into the movie I'm all relaxed and enjoying the cheesiness, marveling at the ability of unrealistic cinema to make me nostalgic about a childhood that was not mine. I alternately appreciate and abhor this theme that directors like to use in old, 50's era pieces. Everyone likes to look back on the early twentieth century and make it out to be some sort of Garden of Eden. I am constantly receiving forwards from older generations lauding the simplicity, honesty, and purity of that period. And they are always wishing the characteristics of that time into the modern age.

But it irritates me to no end because it is so, so wrong. I certainly do not long to be living in a time when one of the greatest flaws was a severe lack of equality between all people. We have enough of that now, we don't need to revert back to a time of pronounced inequality for people of color, women, and especially any other variation in religion or sexuality. But, Peggy Sue has warped back in time to her high school days, the always ideally represented 50's, and is alternately confused and excited to see everything the way it used to be. She walks into her house and (I'm anticipating this from watching it previously) finds herself face to face with her mother. And in spite of the hated idealization, I find myself misty over the thought of a non-existent mother, loving and supportive, with whom I could have been overjoyed to see again in the setting of my youth. It made me chuckle at myself, thinking that if I had experienced the same thing as Peggy Sue, I would run screaming the other direction before walking back into my old house during my high school years.

Yet, on walks Peggy, up to her room to peruse all her lost treasures of old. I've dismissed the notion of nostalgia for my own life, promising in the back of my mind to be the mother I never had, when in walks Peggy Sue's sister.

That's the kind of thing that just brick wall's me because it is so unexpected. I find myself with tears streaming down my face as Peggy Sue fawns over a sister with whom she never had a relationship, trying to make up for lost time by playing a board game with her. As an adult, Peggy realizes what she didn't know as a teenager: she really loves her sister and wants to know her better.

Damn it.

I would go back in time. I'd give anything to do it, even brave the hell hole that was my old house, just to see her again and maybe spend some time with her.

Everything Important

I hate blogging. Kinda.

I have so many important things I want to talk about, yet:

• I am tired. Me no want writie.
• It takes so long to explain everything in my head. A two second thought consists of too many words to type.
  
• Real life is not really that entertaining. I am not a fan of reality T.V. I love movies. Movies=mostly fantastical/exaggerated depictions of real life to entertain/make a point/whatever. Blogging about real life is like the reality t.v. of words.
• Who cares, really? I mean, who will read this regularly except me, Brandon, and maybe Wren? Really.
• I have good movies to watch, good books to read. "3:10 to Yuma" arrived from Netflix today. It already rocks and I'm not even done with it. Hurrah for great flicks! Finished re-reading Dune and am on to Dune Messiah. Hurrah for good books!
• It's easier to talk about meaningless nothings than the meat of my day that matters to me.
  
• Bowen wears me out. And today was a GOOD day!

Bits and Pieces

I feel so overwhelmed that I purposefully don't write. There is so much going on, so much I am thinking about, so much to that makes me feel genuinely moved, angered, enlivened, diverted, amused, hopeful, confused, downtrodden, excited, nervous, or any other shade of emotion.

• I need to finish my novel. I'm scared to do it. It feels like a mountain, huge, looming ominously over my subconscious. I don't believe in myself.
• I love/hate the internet. For so MANY reasons.
• Politics. By God, I used to hate hearing about politics. I still kinda do... maybe I just hate politicians. But, I find myself caring so much because I am a parent, a citizen, a world-citizen, a humanist with an agenda. Fuck conservatives. Now the question is: which Dem to vote for? Leaning towards Barack. Hope is a powerful draw for me.
• Computers, desks, clutter, dirtiness, or general disorder are driving me mad. MUST simplify.
• I will live in a yurt at some time in my life. It's one of those unusual, green, kooky, hippie things I plan to accomplish just so I can say: "I did that!"

• Excited about the new Disney/Pixar movie, Wall-E! Looks great! Reminds me of "Short Circuit" and "E.T." because of the eyes. It's worth looking into. Good teasers online:

"The Dark Knight" Trailer

Click the above link to see the new, recently released "Dark Knight" trailer.

I am so excited to see this movie! There are practically no words. Batman was redeemed by Nolan, Bale, and Co. in "Batman Begins," after the filth that was "Batman and Robin". Now the awesomeness continues with another dark, freaky, pitch perfect fight between good and evil in "The Dark Knight". The trailer has me loving Heath Ledger as The Joker. I had high hopes for him when listening to the audio-only trailers that were our only glimpses of the movie until now. Now, blasphemy that it may be, I think Ledger may be an even better Joker than Jack Nicholson. I love the Batman series and I love that they are doing justice to it again!

I'm In

I love Pajiba.com. Thanks to their witty reviews I find myself wanting to see a lot of movies I have never heard of before. And thanks to Netflix I actually get to watch all the movies in the world that remotely strike my fancy *cue hallelujah chorus*! There is an awesome review of "Juno" on Pajiba (here it is: http://www.pajiba.com/juno.htm) that made me really want to see the movie. The trailer pretty much confirms what the review says. Sounds good. I'm in.

That is.... I'll have to wait a millenium for the DVD to come out considering we can never get to the movies since we don't have a babysitter... which pretty much breaks my heart.... but it's cool.... thanks to Netflix.... that allows me to see new movies about a year after they are in theaters. lol.